Conceptualizing the Idea of Threesome Marriage

Ok, before starting let’s make it clear that the idea of threesome marriage is in no sense related to porn or such things. It is just an idea with a non erotic meaning.

Two is a company, three is a crowd.

This is an old saying.
But then why do we approach to a third person when we quarrel? Why do we need a third person to have a change in life? Why is it that people complain about ‘breach of personal space’ when with a partner?
May be we are made like that.  May be it is natural to have quarrels with a person with whom you spend all of your time. And may be that is why there is always a need of a friend or a family member to whom we can approach in times of sorrow.
Well this situation gave me a hypothetical idea of a Threesome Marriage.

The Threesome Marriage

Dil to Bachha Hai Ji: the Art of Mental Highjacking

We spend so much time and resources on our mental conditioning, or what is commonly known as ‘Training’. As soon as we get hold of our senses, we are exposed to a number of courses and programs, to make us a suitable candidate for the various roles that we play during our eventful lifespan. But we often forget one thing…
That, a good start to a role play can be done only when we make up our mind/heart.
In our routine life, we perform a number of roles. We might be a parent, sibling, employee, subordinate, friend, lover, artist, and a countless number of things… And every single role requires a particular mindset. This is where most of us fail. It’s easy to acquire the technical skills to master a job, the challenge lies in preparing your mind and heart to be able to do the same.
Like it’s said, the biggest battles are flight on a mental level.
The person who masters the art of making up the mind for any task that comes up, can do anything with great probability of success.

50 Shades of Mind

The Bald-man Paradox

Before starting any serious discussion, here’s a short story:

There was a bald person, who used to be very conscious about his baldness. Anywhere he went, he only thought about his bald look and the fact that people might be making fun of fun. So one day he purchased a hair-wig and started using it to make public appearances.

I used to observe this person from a distance and one day an idea struck my mind.

The bald person used the hair wig as he was conscious of his baldness, but he remained conscious even after wearing that wig, thus defeating the purpose of having the wig. (because he still feels conscious of his baldness)

But when that person became confident with his personality, he no longer felt the need to wear the wig, and again negated the need of wearing it for inculcating confidence.

This is where is the idea of Bald-man Paradox struck my mind.

Whats Wrong with Aadmi hu Aadmi se Pyaar Karta Hu!! A perspective on Homosexuality

I do not understand why there is so much hype about the homosexuals and homosexuality!

After failing to arrive at an answer from a rational perspective, I decided to explore the traditional sphere for explanations and justifications.

But first, I decided to chart out the foundational aspect that becomes the target of the antagonists of the homosexual love/relations. The search was simple- the foundation of a homosexual relation, most of the times, lies in an uncompromising love and affection. It is the kind of love that transcends the barriers of any kind of social-biological identity. Isn’t this the same principle that is idealised in the heterosexual society??

Why is Sleep so Important!!

What’s up with Sleeping!!

Why do we Sleep?? Often Sleeping is considered as an eternal bliss! But what is it that makes it so wonderful. Technically, it is only a vegetative state that most living organism witness, generally in order to allow the body to recover and rejuvenate. But, Sleeping becomes a bliss only when the body, or mind, is exhausted.

The reason why the Rich and prosperous ones are insomniac is- they don’t have anything to do. In contrast, a poor one has to break his back working day and night. In this sense, a good sleep can be compared to LUCK; it comes to those who toil and work, without thinking about the future. Why does a small child sleep so peacefully. May be because the small little being has been constantly learning and struggling with the loads of new things that she sees in the world; may be her body is already working so hard to adjust to the world and survive the challenges of life.

Often we observe that it is the most difficult task to sleep for the sake of sleeping. Whereas, a hard working person does not require to wait to sleep; he simply takes a break to catch his breath, and sleep catches him. This is the state that makes sleeping productive. Such a person wakes up all afresh and happy. Whereas, when someone tries to sleep, only because it is the time to sleep, even the heavy medications fail to do their job. This worthless sleeping is the cause of sadness and waste of time.

How I became a Gambler in Disguise!!

I have always preferred a secured life. Being born in a family of middle class government servants, I have always dreamt of Public Services as the ideal career for myself.

One of the assumed characteristics of the middle class families is, there preference for social security and a long-term perspective while taking their decisions. Since childhood, the choices are made so as to secure the future.

Thus, I went to an English medium school, had more focus on education, than sports, and always tried to postpone the immediate material infatuations hoping for a better future.

But amidst all this cautious approach, I don’t know how I, and thousands others like me, fall into the trap of pursuing the high dreams, career-wise.